Sunday, May 04, 2008

Culling Books Again

Yesterday while sick and resting in bed I put on a TiVo recorded Dr. Phil which featured a hoarding woman. She had filled a condo and a 3500 square foot house, both stuffed to the gills including with rotting food (she had a big thing for hoarding food, even years after it was rotted).

I couldn't take it for more than a few minutes. As I looked around my bedroom I saw stacks of books. I looked over to the sitting room's built-in bookcases and saw overstacked shelves. Right then and there I got up and began culling books.

I first went through the non-fiction books on pregnancy, birth and parenting. Next, nutrition and medical books. Then other non-fiction categories, some left over from my business corporate days. I keep asking myself these things:

1. Is this book something I will ever read again?

2. If the book is so great why haven't I read it yet?

3. Does this topic pertain to my life right now or is this something from my past that is no longer relevant?

4. Do I care enough to learn about this to spend my time reading it?

5. Do I really need the book or do I just like what the book is about? It is okay to like a topic and to love what an author has to say but it doesn't mean I have to own the book if I'm not using the book.

I rid myself of over 50 gardening magazines saved as I thought I'd re-read them someday. I decided I have gardening wisdom in my head already and what I need to look up I can do in one of the many gardening books I also own. I posted those to Freecycle immediately.

I then loaded some books into my PaperBackSwap account to swap out via the Internet.



(If you join PBS--free of charge---through my link then I get one free book. I thank you in advance!)

I then showed my husband a little of the show and he walked over to his desk. He began sorting papers and shredding stuff up. He moved on to a file about the sale of our former house and the purchase of this one and began throwing stuff out. I saved a few momentos such as the official listing of the house and the contract.

I was out all day today but just now I returned to the task.

I went through half of my fiction books which are mostly all unread in a big 'to be read' pile. I found an unprecidented three copies of one book. Wow. (Most of these were purchased for 50 cents at library sales and most are in 'like new' condition.)

I have been reading the backs of the fiction books and really figuring out which don't appeal to me. No mind that it is an Oprah book club book, if I don't want to read it, I'm letting it go. I am letting go of some chick lit which really is not something I'm interested in reading. As a happily married mother now in her 40s I just am not entertained by reading of the dating scene and the 'search for love' or 'search for a man to marry' stage of life. Do I really want to read a book about a murder? Have I tried to read this before and just was not interested--if so why am I keeping it?

Right now I'm looking at a number of books by a few different highly acclaimed fiction writers. I am thinking that I should again try to read some and if they don't click with me then get rid of them. Again, it doesn't matter if an author or a book is popular, if I can't stand to read it then why is this book clogging my bookshelf?

I felt so inspired by the fact that I'm letting some more books go that I popped online to share that with you. Now I'll get back to culling more books.

5 comments:

Christina said...

Sounds like a terrific project! I have been working through my books too, the ones out on the shelves. A bit of breathing space there will make room for me to process the 20+ boxes of books that are still out in the garage; I hope to send most of those on their way, since I haven't looked at them in two years or more. I have to rein in the strewing impulse; I like having a variety of books available for when the kids are browsing for something.

I decided not to paperback swap my books; do I really want to replace my culling with more books that I'll have to cull in the future? I consider myself quite a bibliophile, with thousands of books, but I've learned to love my library with a passionate heart :-)

What kinds of books do you expect to get with your PBS credits?

from a faithful daily reader!

christinemm said...

Christina thanks for your thoughts. Wow, 20 boxes in the garage...

I have my wish list on PaperBackSwap full waiting until hopefully someone will post the books I want. I hope to get some books on art that are for me. I probably in the future will order some books about knitting. I am also always open to books for my kids homeschooling for the future.

About every six months or so I go through my PBS books that no one wanted and get rid of a bunch to the used book shop for store credit. I don't want to keep more than 150 books in the closet waiting for someone on PBS to maybe ask for them.

HisBeloved said...

As my husband and I just moved, I am doing the same thing; going through all my books and weeding out those that I just don't need or have never read and probably never will. It was nice to find some one else who is in the same proverbial boat!

Blessings!

Amy Jane (Untangling Tales) said...

At age 29 (for real. I'll probably be saying that all year...) I'm still in the accruing stage.

I figure the math is what-space-is-being-used vs. what-will-it-cost-later and as we have the space (crawl-- under the house) and I expect to school a bit like i imagine you do, I buy good books as I find them-- even though my oldest is just starting Kindergarden.

(e.g. a complete advanced world-lit curriculum at my local recycled book store for $2, an algebra book that references "real-world" applications of each topic)

Anyway, I feel I have a good handle of what I will or won't keep in my home except for one thing: Gifted books.

I'm a writer and a reader, so people press their favorite books on me-- but between being as a writer working on my craft and holding to my movie standards with books as well (they're are certain things I just don't want in my mind) even books in the genres I read aren't always welcome or read.

The problem is that I have a handful of books that basically represent tenuous relationships (b/c they didn't know me well enough to give me books I'd actually want to read).

What would you recommend for those books I'd get rid of if I'd bought-- but I didn't, and I fear/avoid conversation with these people b/c I'm afraid they'll ask me if I've read their book(s)?

christinemm said...

Hi Amy Jane,
I advise you let go of all books you have no use for.

I'd put them on PaperBackSwap, as I discussed in the blog post.

GO FOR IT!

Do not feel bad about letting go of a book that someone gave you as a gift.

I also let go of books I've enjoyed but truly will never read a second time (nearly all the adult fiction books I've read).

I wish I owned more book shelves. LOL. I could use shelf storage space.